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When what you loved most becomes annoying

When what you loved most becomes annoying

When they met, it felt perfect. She was attracted to his calm, strong, contained and level-headed energy, he was drawn to her bubbly, outgoing and socially competent style. She knew right away that he was the [...]

The many ways to say ‘I Love You’

The many ways to say ‘I Love You’

As Valentine Day approaches we are reminded to express our love to those whom we hold dear. Flowers are sent, cards and gifts are exchanged and dining out is marked by a special romantic atmosphere. It [...]

A few good ways to please your woman

A few good ways to please your woman

“I don’t know what she wants”, “I can’t understand her”, are common statements made by men about their women. Well, women can be mysterious, but need not be confusing, and pleasing women is not that complex. [...]

A few good ways to please your man

A few good ways to please your man

Every man has his own special ways in which he prefers to be pleased. Yet, there are several types of behaviors that appeal to most men. You may want to ask the gentleman in your life [...]

Is being social a problem in your relationship?

Is being social a problem in your relationship?

“Why do you always need so many other people, and frequently invite friends to join us for dinner, or plan the next party before this one is over?” he asked. “I am a friendly person and [...]

How to deal with loneliness

How to deal with loneliness

Loneliness is probably one of the most painful emotions we can feel. It creates emotional and even physical symptoms when it is experienced for a prolonged time. The misery of lonely people is often described as [...]

How to give your partner the needed attention

How to give your partner the needed attention

A common complaint of couples coming for counseling is that one or both are not given first priority in their relationship. This situation causes great pain to the shunned mate and a loss of intimacy to [...]

Let’s talk about the ‘other woman’

Let’s talk about the ‘other woman’

In discussions about marital infidelity it is interesting to explore the perceptions, motivations and conduct of the “other woman”. Why would a woman agree to this secondary status? What is she thinking? What keeps her available [...]