Conflicts'

When winning ends up losing

When winning ends up losing

Everyone loves to win. Whether the win is of a game, prize, contest, sport, legal matter, lottery, promotion, prized mate, or any other physical or intellectual achievement that the winner is blessed to receive. There is [...]

Do politics impact your relationship?

Do politics impact your relationship?

With the election looming large and emotions running high, it is interesting to consider the impact of diverging views of couples who do not share the same political opinion. Is your political perspective a potential source [...]

Temper your conflicts for the sake of your children

Temper your conflicts for the sake of your children

Marital conflicts are common and may not be hazardous to the spouses or their children if they are handled well. When parents’ feuds are hostile, aggressive and are not resolved amicably, the impact on the children [...]

How to create consistent harmony throughout your marriage

How to create consistent harmony throughout your marriage

Committed partners use various styles of interactions. Some couples fight, some debate and argue, others are cordial and distant and there are those who maintain a loving, harmonious attitude throughout years of marriage. How do these [...]

How to diffuse marital fights

How to diffuse marital fights

Do you believe that once you and your mate start having a strong disagreement it has an irreversible course? Many people believe this to be true and indeed, experience it repeatedly. How would you feel if [...]

Why do lovers fight?

Why do lovers fight?

Finding reciprocal love is a true blessing. Lovers delight in adoring each other and relish being fully accepted and cherished by their “other half”. Why then do people who truly love each other resort to having [...]

When are you going to change?

When are you going to change?

All partners experience some frustrations about their mate’s ways. These annoyances are expected, repetitious and unavoidable and may either contaminate the joy in the relationship or may be handled gracefully. The easy going, pleasurable and trouble-free [...]

How couples can mediate their everyday disputes

How couples can mediate their everyday disputes

Mediation is the process of facilitating a resolution between parties who are at odds. A mediator helps negotiate an agreement between two or more disputants through respectful listening, an impartial, unemotional, logical assessment of the conflict [...]